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A 40 year old man wrote to his father. He said “Dad, we never had a close relationship, and though I am older now, it is not too late, I want to have a real close relationship with you.” When his father read the letter, tears rolled down his cheeks, he knew also that there was a terrible lack between them as father and son, and wondered why he had never truly connected with his son. The father was not a drunk, or drug user, he was not an adulterer or gambler, he was a minister and had been a missionary for many years!

It shows us close relationships are not automatically formed, they take time and effort and Christians are not immune to the subtle pull that trys to keep us distant from one another. The recent article about Rev. Espinoza showed us some great examples of how a busy minister still made time to bond with his children, and the testimonies of his children show the result of his love and effort.

In our efforts to get everyone else to heaven, let’s not forget to take our own family.

Here is a poem that illustrates this quite well:

My child arrived just the other day

He came to the world in the usual way

But there were planes to catch and bills to pay

He learned to walk while I was away

And he was talkin' 'fore I knew it, and as he grew

He'd say "I'm gonna be like you dad

You know I'm gonna be like you"

And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon

Little boy blue and the man on the moon

When you comin' home dad?

I don't know when, but we'll get together then son

You know we'll have a good time then

My son turned ten just the other day

He said, "Thanks for the ball, Dad, come on let's play

Can you teach me to throw", I said "Not today

I got a lot to do", he said, "That's ok"

And he walked away but his smile never dimmed

And said, "I'm gonna be like him, yeah

You know I'm gonna be like him"

And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon

Little boy blue and the man on the moon

When you comin' home son?

I don't know when, but we'll get together then son

You know we'll have a good time then

Well, he came home from college just the other day

So much like a man I just had to say

"Son, I'm proud of you, can you sit for a while?"

He shook his head and said with a smile

"What I'd really like, Dad, is to borrow the car keys

See you later, can I have them please?"

And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon

Little boy blue and the man on the moon

When you comin' home son?

I don't know when, but we'll get together then son

You know we'll have a good time then

I've long since retired, my son's moved away

I called him up just the other day

I said, "I'd like to see you if you don't mind"

He said, "I'd love to, Dad, if I can find the time

You see my new job's a hassle and kids have the flu

But it's sure nice talking to you, Dad

It's been sure nice talking to you"

And as I hung up the phone it occurred to me

He'd grown up just like me

My boy was just like me

And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon

Little boy blue and the man on the moon

When you comin' home son?

I don't know when, but we'll get together then son

You know we'll have a good time then